THE TIME IN WHICH WE LIVE
I speak of the time in which we live because I feel it is like a world of dead symbols, an historic period in which the true search for our callings is rendered difficult, not real.
The old peasant and patriarchal society was a world full of symbols, where the individual could easily find his or her calling and path.
Even if at times it was mistaken.
In any case, it was a magic universe.
Where nature was the teacher, indicating strategies and providing directions.
LIVE WITH PASSION
To the women and men that do not follow their callings, that they may reawaken…
and become aware of them.
To the generations of interior people, to my faithful readers that follow me..
I say that life does not go feared, nor dreamed but lived in the first person, with passion.
Above all else.
A SPIRITUAL MAN
Living these experiences, with my hypersensitivity, ever since I was young I always placed the satisfaction of my thirst for happiness outside of myself, in another, others, in the world.
In God.
For this I know that I have always been, deep down, a spiritual man.
Religious.
The moments of happiness that we feel on this earth help us to intuit eternal happiness. But the interior peace that I mean does not exclude suffering, nor does it seek absolute happiness.
THIRST FOR HAPPINESS
Often in my life I have felt an irrepressible thirst for happiness and the impossibility of totally fulfilling it.
It has always been so, in moments of personal joy, in moments of intense love relationships, in the tranquility of psycho-spiritual harmony with myself and others.
I always felt like something was missing.
Even when you live an intense, happy, reciprocal love… you can sense the finitude. Limits.
Who has not had the experience of living the unbridled strength of desire and then when it has been fulfilled, to become only a memory?
LOVE OVER. STRONGER THAN BEFORE
Then if you are psychologically healthy, a gradual diminishing of the emotions begins, so that you understand the new reality and can take from it as many benefits as possible, above all increases in maturity and awareness.
In the end it’s important to take back all of the investment made in the person you loved.
To not get out of it maimed, but rather as more experienced and with all of the life force that you had with that person.
Better yet, with more vitality and strength.
In this stage it is important to have a friend in whom you confide your pain. That helps in giving the right assessment of the loss.
LOVE LOSS. AFTERWARDS
Then after while, the person that suffered the loss lives an array of different emotions: fear, sense of abandonment, solitude, anxiety, anguish, anger, guilt.
These emotions flow in and out of the person dozens and dozens of times a day, and become obsessive, repetitive and fanatical.
RADIO INTERVIEW DOWNLOAD
On the “Ben Fatto” radio show website you can listen to and download the interview.
To download the interview in mp3 format follow this link to the show’s website.
SHORT RADIO INTERVIEW
Tomorrow morning at around 8:30 I am going to be interviewed on SOLITUDE on the BENFATTO show hosted by Annalisa Manduca on Radio 1. As you know this theme is very dear to me.
SHOCK. THE BEGINNING
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At first there is shock, disorientation for the love loss that was unthinkable to happen.
Not able to imagine such loss, one has the feeling of living a bad dream, an unreal situation, so much so as to deny that it’s happening or that it happened.
NO TO HURRY
You don’t need to be in a hurry to come out of a struggle, looking substitutes.
Many hurry to replace the lost partner with a new one because of hurt pride, or to fill the emptiness, believing that resolve their struggle that way.
They do not know that the struggle will come back later and make them pay a higher price.
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