SAVE THE PERSON
Often after having been hurt in a relationship, we have the sensation that our whole being has been wounded. We should recognize that only some parts of our personality have been affected.
We have to avoid feeling like victims and understand which part of us was hurt and why.
Behind every suffering there is always something new that we should find out about ourselves that we didn’t know before.
LET YOURSELF FEEL FOR ONCE ANGER
Let yourself feel for once anger, desire for revenge.
Even not acting on these emotions, we should not deny the suffering, the fact that we have been hurt. Because burying it in our unconscious we could suffer depression, unexpected crises and aggression. A passive form of violence exists which manifests itself in various ways: depression, apathy, boredom, irritation, desire to die.
We need to heal from this form of auto-destruction, which makes us victims of ourselves, of our own aggression and violence.
AFTER BEING HURT BY LOVE
How often after having just felt the pain for a broken love relationship, do we not believe we are able to love again, or be loved by another?
We are destined to remain imprisoned by the pain we feel, to distrust everyone and everything, to lose our self esteem, if we cannot recreate harmony in ourselves – if we cannot manage well the anger in our hearts.
HEALING WOUNDS
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If you don’t definitively free yourself from your wounds, you risk losing strength, vitality and even the possibility of breaking up your identity.
If wounds are not overcome and healed, they halt the personal growth journey.
We should not deny suffering, or the fact of having been hurt. Burying it in the unconscious we could suffer depression, unexpected crises, aggression or the complete removal of everything. And this would block overcoming the trauma in a positive way.
THE HOW
For us as seekers of meaning, life is in the act of living. Society conditions us to fixate on goals, but we know that the HOW of reaching a goal is more important.
The how is about the HEART with which we do things, with which we enter into relationship, how we manage power.
The how makes the difference between one human being and other.
BLAME WITHOUT FORGIVENESS
Blame without forgiveness is called judgment.
He who is not forgiven, does not forgive.
WANT WHAT YOU DO
In my life vision, it’s not important to do what you want but to want what you do.
We have to learn to not separate from any part of ourselves.
Not listening to the whole personality is comfortable but in the long term it makes us lose the energy and vitality we possess.
FELLOW PSYCHOSPIRITUALITY SEEKERS
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Dear friends and fellow journeyers I am happy to be back in contact with you after being in the hospital to check up on my heart problems.
Thanks for thinking of me.
FEAR COURAGE ACTION
Courage feeds action.
Fear feeds thought.
To live means having the courage to plan and fulfill thoughts.
Action is the test of thinking.
Someone said: fear knocked on the door. Courage opened and found no one there.
SORRY
Sorry for the silence these past few days… I am not well. I am doing some check-ups, don’t worry.
Can you believe that it was the flu vaccine that ruined my thyroid and heart?
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