OVERCOME LOSS
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As you become aware you understand clearly the need to go beyond the loss, pain and rejection you have suffered.
Our unhappiness is caused in large part by not wanting to let go of the things and people that have hurt us or that we have loved, and to whom we remained attached in our hearts.
Not wanting to let go of the past condemns us to live in a dimension of delusions.
When we begin to release the past, naturally and without effort, we are invaded by a new strength, a powerful energy.
WORK OF ART
As for every work of art, a period of maturation and reflection is necessary in order to discover your mission.
You do not need to be in a hurry to leave the desert before you have been freed from a superficial identity that you thought was mature.
A calm environment is advisable, preferably in contact with nature, a silent place where you can meditate and pray.
SILENCE AND NEW LIFE
So don’t let the wounds you have suffered become a waste of energy and life.
To find a new reason for leaving, you can respond to these questions:
What limits or weaknesses have I discovered in myself?
What have I learned from being hurt?
Have I become more human towards others and myself?
What does God want to say to me through this experience?
Have I become wiser, more prudent, better able to discern?
Give yourselves new reasons for living. And if you haven’t done it yet, do it now!
After processing the hurt, it is fundamental that you pass a period of time in silence, solitude, meditation and prayer.
It’s important to live through it, even if it seems a waste of time, because in this symbolic space you become more aware of your future.
STRONGER THAN BEFORE
What you really mustn’t do after being hurt in a love relationship is to lose the sense of your existence, to believe that you don’t have a reason to live any more.
Don’t you think that by doing that you give an enormous, exaggerated power to the person who hurt you?
Listen to me: come out of it stronger than before!
Believe me, these experiences can and must transform you to your advantage.
Those who have listened to me have changed their lives for the better, finding their true vocations that had hitherto remained silent and hidden.
When we are hurt and come out of it stronger than before, we can communicate our journey of healing to others.
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