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LIFE. Fragility of the heart.

Valerio Albisetti — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:05:28 +0000

Today my book Life, Fragility of the heart, was released in book stores and Amazon.com. If you follow this blog you’ll recognize pieces from the book that I’ve already posted here and there. I dedicate this book to you, my readers. All of my books are like children, although I think this one is probably the best yet and probably the most sophisticated. Thank you in advance to those who buy it, and after having read it, keep it in their homes as if it were me.

Ben Fatto Show RAI RADIOUNO for a different Valentine’s Day – Monday February 14 at 8:30 am

Valerio Albisetti — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 07:57:27 +0000

Monday February 14 at 8:30 Valerio Albisetti will be a guest on the “Ben Fatto” show on Rai Radiouno, hosted by Annalisa Manduca and Lorenzo Opice. Participate if you want to experience a different Valentine’s day!

TO TAKE A DISTANCE

Valerio Albisetti — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 08:06:13 +0000

In a psycho-spiritual vision, challenges we face are valuable because they give us useful information and precious guidance for continuing our journeys of growth in a better way. If we interpret suffering, with this vision, we discover our true personal identities. If you chose to live, not just to survive, (which can only be done through psycho-spirituality) you understand that the important thing is not to remain inside things or situations or people or suffering, but to go through them and to take a distance. Only if you take a certain distance from the world, can you truly live. True failure of the person is identifying fully in success, roles, things and people. Only if we maintain a certain distance from everything that happens to us, only if we give prime importance to our personal essences, identities and awareness, do we enter into the psycho-spiritual dimension, into the psycho-spirituality of ourselves. But to do this, we need to know how to die. Indeed, if you live only surviving, you do not want to know that you have to die. You do not accept death as natural. If you do not accept your mortality and suffering you are caught in a vicious, endless circle of omnipotence. You have lost a sense of limits. You cannot bear pain anymore. You do not understand existence as a journey. You are not able to learn from failure. (Taken from HAPPY despite everything. (Felici nonostante tutto) e.book. Valerio Albisetti. Edizioni Paoline.)

TRUE LOVE

Valerio Albisetti — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 08:14:18 +0000

We are used to demanding affection and love. When you beging to enter into my psycho-spiritual vision, you begin to give, to listen and respect the other person. We would like to be served, but the journey of psycho-spiritual growth tells us to serve others, witnessing our paths of light to them. Therefore entering into relationship with others does not mean making yourself a slave to them or giving into their narcissistic demands. No, it means becoming a space of freedom for them, a space of autonomy, of true life and growth, in order to be able to reach increasingly evolved levels of psycho-spiritual awareness. You should enter into meaningful relationships not out of duty or for conformism or appearances, but for intimate inner realization. Not to deprive yourself of something, but as a personal demand, coming from a natural inner drive. (From THE JOURNEY OF LIFE (VIAGGIO DELLA VITA). Valerio Albisetti, Ed. Paoline.)

DISTURBED SEX

Valerio Albisetti — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 08:34:22 +0000

Sex is one of the activities and forms of communications most practiced by human beings. It is the most physical, the most intimate, and therefore is space where human beings invest their energy, fantasies, dreams, but above all their ghosts, their neuroses, their perversions. The more a person is neurotic, the more that person will invest in sex! The more perverse a person is the more the he or she is involved in disturbed sexuality. The relationship with the other, through sex, can reach the maximum level of exultation or the maximum level of insult. It can reach the maximum level of union or the maximum level of distance and coldness. It can project you into the sacred, or lower you into the muck, the vulgar, the animal. But the highest, most mysterious and most divine moment that humans can live also exists in the sexual relationship: the creation of new life. For all of these reasons, I believe that sexual activity is sacred and should occur only within a determined context – that of awareness (from the book, “LOVE, how to stay together for life” Valerio Albisetti. Ed. Paoline.)

LOSE ETHICS

Valerio Albisetti — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 16:41:48 +0000

The person who loses a sense of ethics does not live on a psycho-spiritual level and will enter into a delirium of omnipotence. He wants to be powerful because he is impotent and incapable. For this he shows himself to be capable, with a social image, to satisfy his and other people’s needs, knowing that he tells lies. This is because, this person is empty on the inside and that which counts for him is what he gets back for himself – at whatever cost – in order to feel like someone. It’s not a coincidence, in this society, that the politicians who go on television, tell fairytales and sell illusions are popular. The person who does not live psycho-spiritually spends his entire existence denying the fear of losing, of showing others he is in crisis, of being defeated. To make this happen, on the one hand, he tries to tie himself to powerful people, on the other hand he uses power to dominate or tie weak people to him –people with little self esteem or personal dignity. In the end, the person who does not live, on a psycho-spiritual level, exists only by the measure of how much others need him.

IF YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE MEANING YOU WILL WANT TO LIVE A LONG TIME

Valerio Albisetti — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 17:44:54 +0000

The more a person lives without meaning, without being able to pose the right questions to go on his earthly journey, the more that person will want to live longer. Perhaps to find the meaning that he never had or lost. When one has not truly lived, not understanding the spiritual side of things, then that person does not want to die. Death is felt as a punishment. But things are not like that. The world was not created in order to be violated, nor society to be unjust, but rather to be in harmony with human beings, in the same way human beings should be in harmony with God.

LIFE AS A JOURNEY OF MEANING

Valerio Albisetti — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 15:03:00 +0000

Essentially, life is in the journey itself, in the act of journeying. It is in seeking the signs coming from inside ourselves and connecting them with the world, with others, to better understand our own journeys. The person who does not go on the journey can never know who he truly is. It’s natural that, as in every journey, we encounter traps, betrayals, defeats. But we also encounter help, friends and victories. And the treasure that we find will be the secret of our soul. Of our hearts.

INCREASE IN HUMANITY, NOT PERFECTION

Valerio Albisetti — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 09:34:34 +0000

In my view when an aware person makes a mistake the person knows that it is the moment to recognize his or her limits. This attitude will bring the person to make less and less mistakes, because the person has increased in humanity, not in perfection. For this type of person a mistake becomes an important indication, useful for understanding still deeper his or her own uniqueness and specificity and to become more human and welcoming to those around. (from “Happy Despite Everything. Ed. Paoline. Valerio Albisetti)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Valerio Albisetti — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 14:21:09 +0000

Monday January 10 at 8:30 am on the Ben Fatto show on radioRAIUNO Valerio ALBISETTI will answer questions from Annalisa MANDUCA and Lorenzo Opice. These opportunities for truth are very rare in Italy. If you can participate!