Valerio Albisetti - Il viaggio della Vita

Then if you are psychologically healthy, a gradual diminishing of the emotions begins, so that you understand the new reality and can take from it as many benefits as possible, above all increases in maturity and awareness. In the end it’s important to take back all of the investment made in the person you loved. To not get out of it maimed, but rather as more experienced and with all of the life force that you had with that person. Better yet, with more vitality and...

Then after while, the person that suffered the loss lives an array of different emotions: fear, sense of abandonment, solitude, anxiety, anguish, anger, guilt. These emotions flow in and out of the person dozens and dozens of times a day, and become obsessive, repetitive and...

<!– .hmmessage P { margin:0px; padding:0px } body.hmmessage { font-size: 10pt; font-family:Verdana } –> At first there is shock, disorientation for the love loss that was unthinkable to happen. Not able to imagine such loss, one has the feeling of living a bad dream, an unreal situation, so much so as to deny that it’s happening or that it...

You don’t need to be in a hurry to come out of a struggle, looking substitutes. Many hurry to replace the lost partner with a new one because of hurt pride, or to fill the emptiness, believing that resolve their struggle that way. They do not know that the struggle will come back later and make them pay a higher...

My struggle does not aim to forget but rather to establish a different relationship with reality. The process of struggling must come naturally, it should not be forced; it should be temporary, because it will cease; it should be reinvigorating because it creates a new way to...