I don’t want to talk about the pre-established roles of children and parents. I’ve always believed in the person. Not so much in social roles that are mere formalities, consecrated by tradition¯like outfits to wear and exhibit. These roles become spaces of power, where personal neuroses are then subtly hidden or masked¯spaces that are almost never conquered, are almost never the result of a psycho-spiritual journey, are never suffered through, are never felt fully in the head and in the heart, or above all, in the soul. I am for an existence that does not oppose itself, that is not untied from being, but rather that presupposes and demands it. (taken from my last book, ALWAYS PARENTS ed. Paoline.)