In my vision, love should never be a need. It should be a choice. I also believe that entering into a dimension of love, a person should have reduced his or her own needs. On the contrary, many of my peers live the couple relationship as a space in which to satisfy unresolved needs. Hidden by a syrupy sentimentality. The psycho-spiritual awareness that I bear witness of is neither sweet nor bitter, good nor bad. It’s awareness! If awareness were only sweetness, then words like “my love,” “sweetheart,” “beautiful” would be enough