How many times have you thought you messed everything up? Thrown it all away, wasted your entire life… just because you had not reached some goal. Maybe you decided you needed to become socially or professionally important. Maybe you had created in your head the ideal relationship and then lost sight of yourself, your uniqueness and limits. Many of us never look at ourselves. Instead, we invest everything in others. We dishonor our uniqueness this way. And naturally this is easier. Less painful. Most of society unquestioningly identifies with the dominant social and cultural models. Models that are intentionally unreachable. Models that keep people unsatisfied, frustrated, and always ready to buy and compete… and we do all of this to lessen our suffering. Instead we should value our innate powerlessness and weakness. Knowing how to integrate our limits will bring us good self esteem