Certainly the suffering and psychic wounds of childhood leave deep marks, but they can also give meaning to our adult lives. Being reborn does not mean removal, but rather understanding and taking the past in, transforming it. To do this we don’t need to erase the past, but to take a distance from the suffering we experienced. If we want to become persons gifted with true self-esteem, we have to give new meaning to our past, avoiding judgments and definitive condemnations. We have to be nourished by the disappointments and the suffering too. Anger, for example, toward a person remains unchangeable only if we do not admit it. Once we admit it, it must be interpreted, processed and understood. In this way it loses strength and other emotions take its place, allowing us to be reborn.