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People who place the center in themselves are not capable of giving true meaning to their existence. They do not communicate authenticity. Senselessness renders people slaves. It brings with it a subtle violence. It comes from interior emptiness. Not being aware of oneself inevitably brings us to distancing ourselves and refusing the other. The sick, closed and bad ego is a destructor. After all, the will to destruction is none other than the will to destroy...
Read MoreTRUE FRIENDS OF VALERIO ALBISETTI
I believe that you should be discerning in the type of help you offer to a friend, so that it stimulates that person’s personal growth. It is not enough just to give. You have to ask yourself WHY you give. You might find out, for example, that giving is a way to compensate for your sense of guilt, inferiority or to tie the other person to you or to cover up your solitude. True friendship makes the other grow. It renders the person autonomous and independent. It does not...
Read MoreFRIENDS OF OURSELVES
To become friends to ourselves belongs to the psychological realm, and above all the spiritual realm. It is an interior work. It consists in accepting, and looking straight in the face at our negative and hidden parts. To not be ashamed of them, but to reconcile them. A person, above all a seeker of meaning, a friend of Valerio, measures him or herself by his or her depth. And the depth of a person takes nourishment from the parts of that person which suffer. It is...
Read MoreNON FRIENDS 2
Non friendship sees the other person only partially; it reduces, simplifies and impoverishes the person. It identifies the person only in his or her weak and negative parts. The non friend perceives us only in our negative parts. He is trained and ruthless in catching them quickly. Because, deep down, his livelihood is in this. He is bad. If we don’t quickly learn to become friends of ourselves, we risk identifying ourselves in what the bad person says about us. We will not...
Read More(Italiano) NON AMICI
FRIENDS OF VALERIO
After the radio interview today I thought about opening a space dedicated to the FRIENDS OF VALERIO ALBISETTI. This space will become a point of reference for all those who feel they are my friends and who make up this big family. Friendship as I intend it is a continuous interior journey. It is fascinating, even if it is painful. To enter into my dimension of friendship you need to clean your heart of perverse mechanisms of the personality that mystify, take responsibility...
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