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As for every work of art, a period of maturation and reflection is necessary in order to discover your mission. You do not need to be in a hurry to leave the desert before you have been freed from a superficial identity that you thought was mature. A calm environment is advisable, preferably in contact with nature, a silent place where you can meditate and...
Read MoreSILENCE AND NEW LIFE
So don’t let the wounds you have suffered become a waste of energy and life. To find a new reason for leaving, you can respond to these questions: What limits or weaknesses have I discovered in myself? What have I learned from being hurt? Have I become more human towards others and myself? What does God want to say to me through this experience? Have I become wiser, more prudent, better able to discern? Give yourselves new reasons for living. And if you haven’t done it yet,...
Read MoreSTRONGER THAN BEFORE
What you really mustn’t do after being hurt in a love relationship is to lose the sense of your existence, to believe that you don’t have a reason to live any more. Don’t you think that by doing that you give an enormous, exaggerated power to the person who hurt you? Listen to me: come out of it stronger than before! Believe me, these experiences can and must transform you to your advantage. Those who have listened to me have changed their lives for the better, finding...
Read MoreSAVE THE PERSON
Often after having been hurt in a relationship, we have the sensation that our whole being has been wounded. We should recognize that only some parts of our personality have been affected. We have to avoid feeling like victims and understand which part of us was hurt and why. Behind every suffering there is always something new that we should find out about ourselves that we didn’t know...
Read MoreLET YOURSELF FEEL FOR ONCE ANGER
Let yourself feel for once anger, desire for revenge. Even not acting on these emotions, we should not deny the suffering, the fact that we have been hurt. Because burying it in our unconscious we could suffer depression, unexpected crises and aggression. A passive form of violence exists which manifests itself in various ways: depression, apathy, boredom, irritation, desire to die. We need to heal from this form of auto-destruction, which makes us victims of ourselves, of...
Read MoreAFTER BEING HURT BY LOVE
How often after having just felt the pain for a broken love relationship, do we not believe we are able to love again, or be loved by another? We are destined to remain imprisoned by the pain we feel, to distrust everyone and everything, to lose our self esteem, if we cannot recreate harmony in ourselves – if we cannot manage well the anger in our hearts.
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