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It is important to know how to manage positively the suffering from being hurt. The first thing to do is to forgive yourself. Don’t blame yourself. Don’t feel guilty. You must abandon the conviction that you caused the suffering. You must start to treat yourself with sweetness, like you would your best friend. Doing this you eliminate the interior carnage that was created inside of you and you transform it into your protector. You begin to reestablish the interior harmony...
Read MoreTHERE ARE NO MORE TRUE INTELLECTUALS
He who merely survives. fears defeat. He knows, deep down, that he is incapable and powerless on the psycho-spiritual level. For this reason he tries to seem sure of himself and skillful on a superficial level, to satisfy his or others’ needs. It is not a coincidence, in this society, that people who go on TV promising liberation from needs, problems and suffering are successful. It is not a coincidence that the so-called intellectuals and superficial talk shows (and...
Read MoreSPIRITUALLY LIVE OR SURVIVE
The person who survives, on a psycho-spiritual level, seeks to control and manipulate others. He wants to possess the other, for himself. The person, who instead, lives psycho-spiritually, renders other person free. This person leaves others to their responsibilities. This person wants others to belong to the universe, to God. The person who survives, on the psychological level, deep down, does not trust others or humanity. The person who lives psycho-spiritually trusts...
Read MoreNEVER DOMINATE ANOTHER PERSON
We human beings feel happiness and joy only when we are in contact with our spiritual sides. After asking yourself, “Why?” thinking of your personal history, looking for the psychological keys to read it, you have to pass to the next question: “What does God want to say to me with this and what is happening to me?” And so, we reduce personal neuroses so we can recognize and dialogue with our spiritual sides. We need to possess a free gaze, if we want to live in an authentic...
Read MorePSYCHOSPIRITUALITY
PSYCHOSPIRITUALITY All of my thinking comes from the assumption of the existence of a spiritual part and its primacy in the person. This conviction brought me to found psycho-spirituality, convinced that one arrives to the spirit through the psyche. The study of personal history, analysis of the personality, of conscious and unconscious motivation, of various experiences with parental figures and relatives, do not resolve the problems but they become spaces where we can...
Read MorePROCESS GRIEF
Every passage in our psycho-spiritual journey begins with the end of an era. If we remain attached to a person, an era, we aren’t able to advance in our growth and we remain imprisoned in illusion, in dreams. We become sterile from the psycho-spiritual point of view. Before being able to enter into the new, we have to let go of the past, causing changes not only on the outside but above all, inside, in our souls. We have to have the courage to let go that which has past, to...
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